Police: Adults suck milk directly or engage in pornography.
Lawyer: Breast milk is not a commodity and cannot be bought or sold.
Netizen: Adults hire wet nurses to trample on dignity.
Drinking: The nutritional function is not as big as expected.
Recently, the reporter found that mother’s milk has become a fashionable nutrition in Shenzhen’s high-end circle, while direct drinking human milk has quietly become popular in Shenzhen’s rich circle. Lin Jun, the person in charge of the "Xin Xin Yu" housekeeping service point, said that the wet nurse business has already expanded to the adult consumer group, and the demand far exceeds expectations. "If necessary, you can also drink milk from the nipple." According to relevant sources of Shenzhen Public Security Bureau, even if the adult hiring a wet nurse is suspected of pornography, it is relatively difficult to investigate. At the same time, Shenzhen wet nurse can lead a heated discussion on breastfeeding for adults, and some drinkers say that the nutritional function is not as big as expected.
The wet nurse earns a lot of money
He Mei is a 25-year-old young mother. Two months ago, her baby son was born, and her husband worked in a factory in Bao ‘an, earning 2,000 yuan a month. Considering the huge educational cost that she might face in the future, He Mei made a cruel decision. Originally, she left her son to her mother-in-law to raise her, but she started a full-time wet nurse with a monthly salary of 8,500 yuan, and her "salary" was five times that of her honest and dull husband.
He Mei was introduced to the employer by a housekeeping service point named "Xin Xin Yu" located on the 6th floor of Xiangxiefeng Jingyuan on Longzhu Avenue. As soon as he entered the door, Lin Jun, the person in charge, immediately handed in his business card, claiming to be the only professional nanny agency in Shenzhen and even the whole country. In addition to the basic services such as nanny’s new moon, the wet nurse intermediary is impressively listed in its business card. For every successful introduction of a wet nurse, he can make a profit of 8,000 yuan, of which the employer pays 6,000 yuan and the wet nurse bears 2,000 yuan. For him, everything is profitable.
Lin Jun, from Henan, has been engaged in the domestic service industry for more than ten years, and has also been engaged in the wet nurse intermediary industry for six or seven years. Lin Jun said that the demand of adult consumer groups of wet nurses far exceeded his expectations and even became the mainstream business. On the one hand, the smart people in the city, and on the other hand, the simple rural women, driven by interests, are going further and further in the gray area.
The whole process of selecting wet nurses is exposed.
Lin Jun showed some photos and personal data of wet nurses to reporters. These wet nurses come from Guangdong, Sichuan, Hunan, Jiangxi and Heilongjiang, and they have two characteristics, one is that their families are poor, and the other is that their children are under the age of 18. People who are willing to give up their children to be wet nurses for other people’s children are all for economic reasons, Lin Jun said. These wet nurses will go through Lin Jun’s pre-screening, including family status, childbearing age, family medical history, physical health and so on. Every interested wet nurse will come to Shenzhen for an interview.
Nanny is an embarrassing job in the domestic legal field, and there is no relevant law to stipulate that it is illegal or not. However, in Lin Jun’s home economics office, this title will be automatically evaded in the domestic service contract signed by both parties.
After the interview, Lin Jun will sign a waiter registration form with these wet nurses. The reporter saw in a Registration Form for Xinxin Domestic Servants signed with Wang Ping (a pseudonym) that the content is the same as that of an ordinary employment contract, except that the scope of work marked in a column called work characteristics and training situation is "cooking, cleaning, taking care of babies, Sichuan cuisine, Hunan cuisine and Guangdong cuisine." But it is worth noting that neither side mentioned the wet nurse.
Usually, a wet nurse’s monthly income ranges from 8,000 yuan to 12,000 yuan, with food and shelter, and basically no need to do other housework, just feeding and taking care of the baby. Lin Jun said that the working time limit of each wet nurse is basically 6 to 8 months, or even longer. Usually, the income of a wet nurse after finishing a single job ranges from 50,000 to 120,000. Because of the national policy of family planning, most people can only do it once in their lifetime, which is undoubtedly a huge income for some wet nurses with poor families.
Hire a wet nurse to go home to supplement nutrition.
Lin Jun said that people are high-end people with sub-health. Their characteristics are high income, high work pressure and poor physical fitness. They need to supplement healthy nutrition, and breast milk has become the only nutrition.
"Breast milk is now a fashionable nutritional product in Shenzhen’s high-end circle. Many patients who have just finished surgery and can only eat liquid food, or people who have symptoms of getting angry and chest tightness, have consulted him. Many people directly hire a wet nurse to take home and ensure that fresh human milk is provided every day." Lin Jun said.
Later, Lin Jun showed the reporter a list of customers booking human milk, pointing to a telephone number of Mr. X, saying that this was an adult who had booked human milk with them earlier, because his family had just had surgery, and in order to supplement nutrition, he specially hired a wet nurse to go home. "You can drink directly at the nipple," Lin Jun said. "If adults are embarrassed, they can also use a breast pump to dress up before drinking."
Nurses who serve adults charge more than babies. In Lin Jun’s intermediary company, an ordinary wet nurse who serves adults has a monthly salary of about 16,000 yuan, and a healthy and beautiful wet nurse has a higher price. Lin Jun said that they are the only agency in Shenzhen that can provide milk for adults.
It is not uncommon for rich people to hire a wet nurse.
In addition to these patients, direct drinking of human milk has quietly become popular in Shenzhen’s rich circle. As early as a few years ago, some media exposed that some rich people drank human milk. In the eastern coastal cities, some rich people kept wet nurses at home, not for babies, but for their own consumption.
Wang Bin (pseudonym) who is in Futian once hired a wet nurse in the middle of last year. Wang Bin is the sales director of a listed company, saying that the company was extremely busy at that time, because of the long-term workload, the body was tired and tired. "At that time, a Hong Kong friend introduced that it was nutritious and felt uncomfortable at first. It was unacceptable for adults to drink breast milk for a while, but my friend told me which bosses had been or were drinking it." Wang Bin said. Finally, with the consent of his wife, a friend found a wet nurse for him with a monthly salary of 15,000 yuan. The wet nurse lived at home as a nanny for a month. Every morning, the nurse will put the milk in a bottle and put it on the dining table, and drink it three to five times a day, with a dose of 500 ml to 800 ml each time. Sometimes, because there is no time, the nurse will put the milk in a bottle and put it in the refrigerator in advance, but Wang Bin never dares to try to suck it directly with his mouth.
As for the nutritional function of breast milk, Wang Bin thinks that it is not as big as expected, except that it tastes purer, it can only be said that it is healthier than brewed milk powder. "After drinking for a month, I didn’t see how good my body was. On the contrary, after a month’s work pressure was reduced, I could rest more and exercise more, and my body became better." Wang Bin said.
And Wang Bin revealed that in the circle of friends around him, drinking human milk is also popular. "It is nothing new for people who are recovering from major surgery to spend 10,000 to 20,000 yuan a month to hire a wet nurse", but he said that as far as he knows, there is very little real "mouth-to-mouth drinking", "it is easy to remind people of Liu Wencai, the landlord of the old society, and ordinary decent people can’t do it".
Very hot discussion
It is illegal
Mei Chunlai, a lawyer of Guangdong pengxiang Law Firm, according to the Reply of the Legal Supervision Department of the Ministry of Health that human breast milk cannot be operated as a commodity, human breast milk is not a general food resource and cannot be produced and operated as a commodity. "Wet nurse" can’t be understood as "production and management" in the traditional sense. It is illegal for social organizations or individuals to industrialize and scale milk management and profit from it. However, the legal effect of this provision is relatively low, and it only has a normative effect, so its enforcement is very weak.
risky
Zhang Maoxiang, director of the Nutrition Department of Shenzhen Second People’s Hospital, can rule out the wet nurse suffering from infectious diseases such as hepatitis and AIDS through physical examination. However, the whole breastfeeding process is actually a relatively long process. If the wet nurse gets sick or abuses antibiotics during this period, it will pose a threat to human health. Due to the lack of dynamic supervision, it is recommended to invite the wet nurse carefully.
Not necessarily good
Head of Obstetrics, Shenzhen Maternal and Child Health Hospital For milk powder, breast milk does have a natural advantage. But it’s not just a wet nurse with more breast milk. The nutritional composition of breast milk is changing. The protein content in the first stage is high, while in the later stage, in order to meet the needs of the baby’s long body, the breast milk composition is mainly fat. Therefore, you must choose a nurse whose baby’s delivery date is close to the other baby’s birth date, otherwise the nutritional composition will not be absorbed by the baby at all.
Nutrition VS pornography
Zhang Maoxiang, director of the Nutrition Department of Shenzhen Second People’s Hospital, said that for adults, the nutrients needed by the human body can be ingested from daily meals, but the effect of milk on adults is not obvious, so it is obviously too much to eat breast milk at a high price. There is an essential difference between mouth-to-mouth and squeezing it out and drinking it in a bottle. The former far exceeds the needs of diet, which implies that it involves pornographic services.
Mei Chunlai, a lawyer of pengxiang Law Firm, Guangdong Province, is suspected of pornography, but the investigation is relatively difficult. First of all, it is difficult for the parties to admit it, and even if they admit it, it is difficult to obtain a complete chain of evidence.
Abnormal consumption view
Yesterday, Xiao Lu, a netizen, contrasted with the news that the rich in Shenzhen drank human milk. It was the news that pupils in Yongsheng, Lijiang ate cold water to soak rice. Netizens said bitterly that the rich in Shenzhen were spending a lot of money to drink human milk directly, while the "flowers of the motherland" were soaking rice with "river water", which made people feel sorry! Drinking human milk by adults is a retrogressive behavior of human morality and an insult to human mothers!
Netizen "Shuxiang Weiwei" from eating placenta before to drinking human milk now, the poor have become the goods of the rich. If it is understandable that human milk is the only thing on the market today that is not fake, is it because the appearance determines the grade of milk that the good-looking wet nurse is expensive? This abnormal consumption view is actually a disease, and if it is not treated in time, the consequences will be very serious. (According to Xinhua News Agency, Yangguang, CCTV, etc.)
(Source: Beijing Evening News)