Have you ever experienced despair?
I have experienced …
That kind of despair is like being pulled into the bottomless abyss, surrounded by endless darkness. Dead, dull, painful, all kinds of anxiety and irritability spread on every inch of my skin until I was completely destroyed and lost, becoming a puppet without laughter and tears.
My attention is wandering, I can’t study quietly, and my mood is out of control. This is undoubtedly a fatal blow to me who is fully preparing for the senior high school entrance examination.
In fairy tales, people with secrets in their hearts will find a tree hole to talk to, and then seal the hole with mud, and the tree hole will keep its mouth shut. Nowadays, online social media (such as Weibo) has become a "tree hole" for some depressed patients to express their feelings. Finding the "tree hole", unlocking autism, protecting life and warming the heart require the joint efforts of professional ability and social psychological service institutions.
According to the China Youth Development Report released by China Youth Research Center and the International Liaison Department of the Communist Youth League Central Committee in 2018, there are about 30 million children and adolescents under the age of 17 suffering from various emotional disorders and behavioral problems in China. According to the World Health Organization’s prediction, before 2020, the psychological disorder of children in the world will increase by 50%, which will become one of the main causes of illness, disability and death.
According to the data released by the Children’s Development Center of Beijing Medical University, there are more than 100,000 suicides among children, adolescents and college students every year in China.
To implement: General Secretary’s "A series of instructions on the physical and mental health of children and adolescents"; Assist parents and schools to help children "button the first button of life"; In order to solve the practical problems of mental health education for teenagers in China in time, Beijing Zhongkanglian Public Welfare Foundation set up a "psychological volunteer assistance service team"-Zhongkanglian Psychologist Volunteer Alliance to initiate the mental health guidance and education for children, teenagers and college students.
The document "Healthy China Action" released by the 2019 Healthy China Action Promotion Committee revealed that the prevalence of depression in China reached 2.1%, and the prevalence of anxiety disorder reached 4.98%.
By the end of 2017, there were 5.81 million registered patients with severe mental disorders in China.
In order to actively respond to and implement the spirit of the document "Healthy China Action (2019-2030)", the China-Kanglian Psychologist Volunteer Alliance launched the public welfare project of suicide intervention and prevention for primary and secondary school students in "Holding up the Tree Cave Teenager".
The commonweal project of the League of Psychologists Volunteers "Roll Up the Tree Hole Teenagers" is to prevent these teenagers from going to the step of "looking for the tree hole". When they can go to school normally but feel "sad adolescence", they will approach them, get close to their hearts, and even pull them up from the tree hole and become their "echoing tree hole". Use professional psychological counseling to make a reasonable response to their voices, so that children can feel both "safety" and "strength" and firmly work with them: save the life of youth and call back the life force of growth.
As the saying goes: go to the doctor to cure the disease. Suppose that the suicide data of teenagers have increased this year because of the epidemic, but it is precisely because of the common concern and active cooperation of the whole society about the psychological problems of teenagers that the suicide data of underage students have decreased year by year, then we have achieved the realm of "going to the doctor".
This is our common task, and it is also the merit of everyone who has a mission and responsibility for the destiny of the country and the nation.
Only we are vigilant and good at finding and solving problems:
Primary and secondary school students who found "suicidal thoughts"
Intervention of "suicidal plan" of primary and secondary school students.
Rescue primary and secondary school students who are committing suicide.
Heal the "rescued students who have committed suicide"
Early detection of students’ psychological crisis; Timely intervention in the crisis; In order to effectively reduce the number of successful suicides every year.
So it can bring great positive influence to teenagers:
* In view of the focus of adolescent psychological crisis, we should change our cognition based on the direction of counseling goals and guidelines.
* Empowering life according to individual psychological problems and needs, improving students’ self-awareness, self-identity and sense of self-worth, easing the relationship with their parents, and transforming their resistance and negative psychological state.
* Seek internal motivation, establish a positive thinking mode, look at problems from a developmental perspective, accept parents’ limitations, understand parents’ difficulties, communicate with parents in the right way, and form a benign and positive parent-child interaction family relationship.
* Give the society a "positive cognition" of psychological counseling. Popular science psychological counseling is needed by everyone, and life is won by self-cognition.
* Call on the whole society to pay attention to the life education of teenagers, advocate the study of "excellent parents’ employment certificate", and improve "family of origin is an organic soil" early.
Teacher Zi Yue, the initiator of the project "Rolling up the Tree Hole Teenager", often said to parents in the "Parents’ Classroom with Love of the Soul": "Dear, your child is not your own, Ta is national, ethnic and social". There is no reason why we should not do our duty as guardians of children’s hearts.
Children are the future of the motherland, and the future is in the hands of our parents. Whether the future of the motherland is strong or not is also the responsibility of each of our psychologists full of great love. It is the organic combination of family, school and society that provides a stronger guarantee for every child’s healthy and powerful inner construction and lasting positive sunshine mentality.
Thank you, the Psychologist Volunteer Alliance will provide you with three empowerment consultations on Expert Psychological Parenting. You can call 400-9900-513.
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Original title: "Helping the public welfare:" Rolling up the tree hole teenagers ",suicide intervention and prevention for primary and secondary school students"
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